Thank you all for your wonderful comments and advice, it all really means alot! I will definitely try and work on everything you all have shared, I also found the phrase “spilling their poison” really great and it made it alot easier to look at the situation differently. I am just so happy with this website and being able to communicate with so many incredible individuals. My love goes out to all of you and I truly wish you the best.
Again thanks so much, Katie 🙂